Travel Dates Selling Out

Hello little subbies: Paris and Oslo are now totally sold out.

In London I have 7 appointments left.

In Manchester I still have a whole 2 days still available – get up and show up Manchester!!!!


Hope to see you soon. xx

Breaking in the Virgins

Just a very quick observation: Since the censorship of Backpage, there has definitely been a problem reaching out to clients and, so far, I haven’t seen a different online platform successfully fill their mold.

Nevertheless, I do like to find a Golden-Goddess-golden-lining in a cloud, when I can. On this occasion I must say that it appears to be that I am seeing far more BDSM Virgins or self-declared “newbies”.

I hereby confess that I have been guilty in the past of pre-judging individuals who have never experienced S&M and then suddenly want to visit Me. I wonder how deeply their understanding of kink-play can run, I  worry that they have the wrong impression of what will happen between U/us within session and I weary Myself with thoughts of needing to exhaustively mentor, tutor and pander to someone like a (non-Kinky) Nanny.

Here’s the happy news: so far I have been completely wrong on all counts!!

Now that We Dominatrices find Ourselves on the laughably inappropriate “Dating” section of Backpage, rather than embracing the freedom of publicly branding ourselves as the Fetish-Workers We are. This means a longer client-screening process, awkward pre-session conversations and a greater element of insecurity when meeting a new sub. I could not be more surprised, therefore, to discover that the more new clients I find using this unsuitable category, the more novel, fun and unique experiences I am having. I have met lots of (often young), very open-minded, enthusiastic, respectful, friendly gentlemen who would normally be 100% vanilla. As well as enjoying their company, I am encountering more frequently the immense high of a session where you open up an individual to something new to them, which you know will change their life.

I want to thank My new fetish fledglings for stamping on My prejudice, for embracing Kink and for handing Me the opportunity for lovely Domme-euphorias.


Goodbye to Backpage

Not only do I lack the in-depth knowledge to comment on the recent Backpage censorship, I have also heard too many conflicting Chinese whispers from various genuine sources to have anything close to a clear comprehension.

So I shall just say this: It is a great shame and it shall be missed.

I shall continue to post here, on My twitter page and through various directories and ad sites (see “Friends”). Most notably Dickie Virgin has picked up much of the gap left by the classified ads section so look for My postings there.

Kinky 2017!

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New York. How I love you.

I am returning to this wonderful City after a magnificent tour of Europe.

I have had such a wonderful time that only My fabulous Manhattan clients could make Me happy to be home again.

The appointments I had already booked before I left will keep Me busy for a week so GET IN TOUCH now to book up as quickly as you can.

For the next 2 weeks, sessions will be in a wonderful private space opposite Penn Station.

Let’s talk. xbarbie-spank